A Little Respect, Please

What is interesting about the casual wear revolution is it takes on an arrogant self-satisfying defensive posture.  Much in the same way as the buttoned-up tie wearing group that they are revolting against.  I just think it is revolting to wear your car-washing outfit to dinner.

In a similar manner that you want respect for your business accomplishments, the restaurant owner would like the same respect for their efforts. Remember the restaurant owner has to produce his/her best every night and it has to be different every night.  Your software program updates every quarter---maybe.

Case in point:

Not all cultures believe in the casual-for-all-occasions style.  Some actually believe that appropriate dress is a sign of respect for something so basic and important as food. Recently, I was in a restaurant in Milano.  The restaurant was in a sophisticated part of the city.  It was impeccably appointed.  It was not a Michelin Star restaurant but an excellent one with a diverse menu.  The owner and his partner were on the floor orchestrating the show which they must produce every night and yet they make their guests feel welcomed and unique.. I arrived at 8 which is early in this part of the world, and the restaurant reflected that with empty tables.  It gave me a good chance to speak in Italian with the owners and they were patient with me.  As I sat at my table with a view of the restaurant I watched as every table soon became occupied.   What I notice was how people were dressed.  The women were uniformly well put together.  They were not uniform in their looks but uniform in the effort.  To my surprise every gentleman had a jacket on.  Some wore suits with ties, but most wore in open collar shirts with sport coats as did I.  The entire dining room progressively felt more alive and special.  The patrons of this restaurant had taken the time to put themselves together and the restaurant brought its best look as well.  The combination was a show of mutual respect and the result was a lovely evening to remember.

It doesn’t take much to show appreciation and respect for one’s life effort ——- but you still have to do it!